Suspicion and Competition vs Trust and Cooperation

I state that suspicion and competition are synonymous with fight or flight (masculine) and trust and cooperation are synonymous with tend and befriend (feminine) and this reality that we live in right now is all about competition (we compete for and against everything, everywhere, all the time)

So when you look at Congress, It is not about trust and cooperation.

It is about red vs blue, democrat vs republican, the fight for reelection, it is a football game. It is competition at its worst and best where the best is still bad

The Greatest Lie Ever Told

    The greatest lie ever told is that women could gain equality by following the men down their road. 

That might be applicable if we lived on a mobius strip; but we don't. 

    We live in a Dichotomy: where the Feminine is the opposite of the Masculine, yet equal in her presence and stature, and has her own road.

    You know, PEOPLE: men and women, can do and be whatever they want. But the Feminine carries the womb of creation, brings forth new life, and nurtures that life: giving food and love in an effort to make this new life a positive contributor to the society, and that's no small task, in fact it could be the only task, Because if we were all happy and healthy everything else would be, well, icing on the cake, irrelevant, I don't know, you fill it in. 

    Anyway, it is the Feminine that births and nurtures the newborn, bonding and teaching things necessary for positive social development, and it is the parasympathetic nervous system that needs to be active during this development. So if mom's all stressed out trying to juggle work and home and everything, then the children, instead of being exposed to the calm of the parasympathetic nervous system, are inundated with reactions from the sympathetic nervous system stemming from the fight or flight response, and learning to base their state of arousal on sympathetic activation, which is not for daily use and should only be used for fighting or fleeing.

    Now that they have convinced you to deny your biology, your genetics, your herstory, and follow them down the yellow brick road to OZ. "You've come a long way baby" you can smoke and drink, rob and steal, fight in a cage or in a hockey game, be a bully cop or a corporate lawyer, pursue wealth and power, you can compete with the best of them. 

    But who is caring for the children, who is making sure that they are healthy and happy, nurturing them with love and compassion, teaching them to use their parasympathetic nervous system and become descent, loving, caring, people?

    Women don't know who they are. They think that the men have the only game in town and they want to play, but there breasts and womb keep getting in the way (I wish they were detachable she said looking at the glass ceiling ). Actually women are the most sacred beings on the planet !!!! They carry the womb of creation !!!!! bring new life into the world !!!!! and are responsible for nurturing that life, and the society, and taking care of the planet. It is there job to GOVERN, to ensure that we live in an equitable society and to prevent those who would exploit this planet and its people from doing so. 

    Women need to take back the rein and reestablish there place as mediator between the masculine and the planet earth, because without restraint man will chop down all the trees and pollute the air, water and ground to build his civilization, which is just what he is doing.

The Opposite

We live in a world of peace and love and there are some people who say, come on wake up! We need  to start exploiting the resources of this planet for our own personal gain. We need to exploit these resources regardless of the impact on the planet and its people. It is all there for the taking, come on wake up!

That doesn't sound right? So how did we get here, a world that exploits the people and resources of the planet. Did we forget? Do you have to forget to remember?

Is it the great year, that over 25 thousand years takes us from ignorance to enlightenment an back again?

 

Traffic

If all cars were autonomous there would be no traffic jams. And the man said what impressed him the most was how courteous the autonomous vehicle is. After all we drive like we are in competition not cooperation with the other cars. But we have the ability to be just as courteous as a machine, don't we ? Hmmmmmm

Sick World

 There are enough people today that know the world is ill. 

It has a disease (dis-ease) and this sickness has symptoms.

War, poverty, hunger,  abuse of women and children, pollution, injustice, etc.

Although the people who receive the assistance from those who are trying to make a difference in these areas appreciate it greatly.

You can not cure a disease by trying to alleviate the symptoms.

You must find the root cause and it is us.

This disease is in us, and it is driven by fear processed through the amygdala and the limbic system and manifested in the sympathetic nervous system that autonomically controls the adrenal gland directly related to the fight or flight response, which is considered masculine in its nature.

The cure lies in the activation of the parasympathetic nervous system which does not activate the adrenal gland and is responsible for homeostasis and the tend and befriend response which is considered feminine in its nature.

It is the difference between, Bonobos (parasympathetic) and Chimpanzees (sympathetic)

 

  The sympathetic nervous system is totally involuntary and unconscious and regulates the fight or flight response. If you experience any kind of stress, mental or physical, you are activating this system.

 The parasympathetic nervous system regulates the rest and digest / feed and breed/ tend and befriend response and is NOT  totally involuntary or unconscious. The difference in connections gives you the ability to control your breathing, slow your heart rate, calm yourself down, which are all conscious interactions with your parasympathetic nervous system with no connection to the adrenal gland.

 

The Two Sides of the Coin

This describes one side of  reality

This describes the other side

Which one do we currently live in ?

Which one do you want to live in ?

You can't have both at the same time.